> Yes, this is me Crickett. I'm sorry the last message was so vague; we didn't wnat to be indiscreet until we knew we had the right email address. (We had a little trouble making out the message you left on our answering machine.) > How are you liking San Diego so far? We love it! It is Alan's home town (since age 5) and we both lived here together from '79 to '86. We moved back this year to be closer to family and friends, and bought our first house. > We haven't had a chance to go out and do much yet, but I really like this > place. Though we moved here more for the social advantages, we love the beaches (especially OB, MB, and La Jolla), camping in the mountains and desert, hiking in the local canyons, visiting the zoo, Old Town, Horton Plaza and the Gaslamp Quarter, the trolley, Hillcrest... I could go on and on. For a list of resources on the web for San Diegoans, see: http://www.well.com/user/abs/links.html#SanDiego > ...this weekend isn't good for me. Also, you'll > have to forgive me but I'm somewhat of a private person and I'd feel > better if we knew some things about each other... We can appreciate that. We apologize for being a little shy at the play party. The conversation we wanted to have at a coffe shop really should've happened at that party. We're just not used to being at an event where we know almost no one, and have to make introductions ourselves. (Also, Dixie kept whispering in my ear that she wanted me to force my dick in her mouth, and we were hurrying to leave when we encountered you. :) We've been marrried 21 years, together longer. We have a daughter who's 5. Alan is a computer programmer (Web stuff) and Dixie works part-time at a charity and also as a hobby runs a web site for zookeepers (for many years she worked as a zoo volunteer). Around the time we moved to the LA area 12 years ago we started going to parties hosted by a couple, C&J, heavily into male dominant/female submissive BDSM. Eventually we became directors of the club, organizing 5-10 parties/year plus weekends at Big Bear (Gore and Story of O theme), on a housebout on Lake Meade (Pirate theme), and at Lifestyles in Vegas (a suite at Excaliber to bring people met at the Exotic Ball). Alas, a year ago C&J separated, and last month they had their last party. It looks like C is moving his law practice to New Mexico, while J is staying in the area and running a fetishware & toy store in Orange County, plus on the web (see http://www.wicked-chamber.com/). It seemed like the right time to get back into the scene in San Diego. We know two couples here who used to drive up to LA for parties. Otherwise, we're starting from scratch. > ...enjoy a lot of flogging & paddling (I'm pretty damn good with those > whips), piercing, feminization, boot licking and, yes, watersports... > Shaun is a good > masochist/submissive but he does have a top side to him Okay, the nasty bits. Dixie is mostly subnmissive, though she can be "ordered to be dominant." He favorite fetish lately is being strapped into a head harness blindfolded and having multiple men orally rape her. She also likes to be fucked, lightly spanked, and to drink my piss. She is a little bi. I have mostly played with being top for the last few decades, but I do have some submissive fantisies that I have occasionally acted out. I especailly love drinking a woman's piss and licking her boots. Also have fantasies of being dildo-fucked and lightly whipped. We both enjoy costumes, especially blasphemous (priest & nun), and semi-public sex, including at on display at parties and hidden under railroad bridges (believe it or not). We also occasionally swing, but insist on safe sex practices. Heavy pain and piercing don't turn us on at this time but we enjoy being around others who are turned on by them. I also should mention that over the years we've had several good friends who were professional dominant females -- I think we just have an affinity. > What is it you were wanting to know? Does any of the above sound fun? We would love any activity level from storytelling to watching to fulfilling fantasies. Now it's your turn! ============================================================================== Alan B. Scrivener "Traffic on the internet doubles every 100 days." ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ home: voice: (619) 596-5434 10150 Waynecrest Lane cell: (619) 818-4611 Santee, CA 92071 email: abs@well.com (personal) web: http://www.well.com/user/abs ==============================================================================